tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87767354160149199732024-03-19T03:30:58.817-07:00The Healing TreeSupporting carers, teachers and therapists who work with vulnerable older people as well as troubled children and younger peopleDr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.comBlogger68125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-85259125332180997412017-10-16T03:37:00.000-07:002017-10-16T03:37:21.653-07:00Good Morning!<br />
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I am writing on the day of Hurricane Ophelia. Its very dark and the trees are shaking ominously! Exam question:</div>
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The new website of Neuro-Dramatic-Play Ltd is about to be launched - new courses, new articles, new projects. It will be up by the end of this month.</div>
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I'm off to Greece for the launch of the Greek translation of 'Healthy Attachments and Neuro-Dramatic-Play'. Then a Malay tour of Melaka, KL, Penang and JB for NDP training courses and a new Dramatherapy course. Across to India for more NDP training in Delhi and presentations in Mumbai and Pune.</div>
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Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-67185306040071970432017-08-22T12:38:00.001-07:002017-08-22T12:38:38.762-07:00RHYTHMIC PLAY FOR MOTHERS AND BABIES<br />
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If you have a new-born baby or toddler, please come to our special workshop on Rhythmic Play on Friday 22 September 2-5 pm; Central Weston Super Mare, £30<br />
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This is the beginning of a series of workshops for Mums and babies that explores all aspects of Play and the Brain and shows how early play reinforces a strong attachment. Rhythmic play starts with the heartbeat both the baby's and the mother's. When small babies are held and rocked on the left shoulder they will often change their heartbeat to synchronise with their mother's heartbeat. <br />
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Rhythm regulates our physical and emotional lives whether it is the rhythm of the seasons, night and day, waking and sleeping as well as our own routines.<br />
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Lots of fun exercises and takeaway skills. See you there!Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-16140417478315534852017-08-18T02:36:00.002-07:002017-08-18T02:36:57.251-07:00<span style="font-size: large;"><b>NEURO-DRAMATIC-PLAY </b>- exciting new courses from September 2017!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">This 2 day course illustrates the importance of rhythm in attachment and introduces rhythmic play for babies and early years. It also shows the importance of rhythm when working with children on the autistic spectrum. Kelly Hunter who has undertaken long-term research with children and teenagers on the autistic spectrum is teaching on this course, together with Dr Sue Jennings who has developed NDP application with children with learning needs as well as development delay.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This next week-end is an advanced Training Course for people who have completed the Diploma followed by a special three day course on 'Dreams and Nightmares'. This is a new NDP course which connects early experiences of fear with later nightmares and strong loving attachments with a greater awareness of positive dreams. Everything is connected!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Annual Play Therapy and Dramatherapy Summer School in Brasov includes an intensive Ritual Theatre component as well as Autobiographical Theatre, and a review of the three years of training for the graduates.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Summer 2018 (dates to be announced) we will have another Neuro-Dramatic-Play Intensive. Last year participants came from UK, New Zealand, Turkey and beyond! The course combines the NDP Diploma with practice with local children, teenagers and adults as well as families and mothers and babies. Next year we will report as we work so that participants can complete their Diploma at the end of the course.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: ArialMT; font-size: 12px;">Performers from every ethnic group entertained us with stand-up political comedy, classical piano, (I did not see how the grand piano arrived!). Children of all ages drew pavement pictures with jumbo chalks, and the squirrels nibbled the crumbs and then scampered to the safety of the trees.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: ArialMT; font-size: 12px;">I have been really inspired by the work of so many arts therapists and their expertise in working with trauma. Trauma of many varied kinds: victims of torture, genocide, tsunami, family abuse were presented during a 2 day Symposium in New York.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: ArialMT; font-size: 12px;">My own presentation focussed on the long term results of early trauma from the early abuse and cruelty inflicted on babies and toddlers in the Eastern European orphanages. Rowan Tree Trust sponsors special projects with teenagers and young adults who sleep on railway stations and in abandoned cars in Romania.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: ArialMT; font-size: 12px;">The principles of Neuro-Dramtic-Play are enjoyed by these disadvantaged groups, with a focus on sensory, rhythmic and dramatic playfulness. There is a DVD showing detailed work with a group of 'Railway Boys', taking part in an NDP project.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt;">Happy New Year Everyone and I hope it will be a very positive and hopeful year. I am now traversing the second anniversary of dear Peter's death (January 4). Amidst the floods and winds it is difficult to think that the world will be warm and cheerful! I have been helped enormously by the recent book by Martin Seligman, 'Flourish' (2011).</span></div>
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Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-87356566519757272202013-11-06T02:58:00.000-08:002013-11-06T02:58:20.750-08:00The Invention of Senoi Dream Therapy!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt;">I lived for over a year with the Temiars with my three children, we were able to converse with them in their own language, and we lived in one of their traditional houses. We traveled between several other villages on the banks of two main rivers in Kelantan.</span></div>
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Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-62206425514853955192013-10-06T15:40:00.001-07:002013-10-06T15:40:25.261-07:00Irresponsible Advertising - pandering to nudge nudge attitudes.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">The most recent Marmite ad is really quite pernicious; it mimics a child abuse raid and the accusation is cruelty to a jar of Marmite, as it is taken into care. As a great life-long lover of Marmite, it leaves me with a dilemma. This advertisement trivialises the actual circumstance surrounding child abuse, and the opening shots can be mistaken as an actual Social Services intervention. At the very least it is in extremely bad taste, at worst it is playing into the fantasies of paedophiles . </span></div>
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Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-77399653346841837252013-09-11T14:43:00.000-07:002013-09-11T14:43:03.357-07:00Stopping to think.....<br />
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">Lets think in a whole new way about what might just make people happier, less stressed and healthier. All the community projects, that in the long ago past brought people together, preserved cultural traditions, contained anti-social behaviour and integrated all ages and abilities have virtually disappeared. The arts are marginalised, or seen as a luxury, and dismissed as non-essential in schools.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">Just one billion (leaving 79 billion for hospitals, community projects, care home overhaul, and schools), would allow us to employ all the actors and artists as community arts workers, or to train them as arts therapists, and encourage new skills for people leaving school with few prospects. The arts revolution could train all teachers in basic arts and provide space for art studios, drama and dance workshops, comprehensive music resources and performance spaces. </span></div>
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Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-6287987562837528902013-08-28T09:04:00.002-07:002013-08-28T09:04:56.014-07:00Transformation<br />
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">I have at last moved to where I intended - Stratford-upon-Avon. I have already lived here twice, for eight years and two years, and before setting off on new journeys. Perhaps in the olden days I would have been the female equivalent of a journeyman. But more about nomadic life and touring in another blog. </span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">Now I am here to stay, in a tiny rented terraced house in the middle of the town. The theatre and the beautiful river with its old willow trees are six minutes from my doorstep. The surrounding countryside makes for stimulating walks and nothing much has changed. Maybe there are some new developments on the outskirts and road systems that do not always make sense, but essentially the core of Stratford is here: its merchants, travellers, inns, markets, river-craft and of course entertainment.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">I have learned something about creating environments, and this undersized dwelling and diminutive garden is slowly being changed into a set worthy of A Midsummer Night's Dream. As the picture shows I am experimenting with drapes, fabrics and garlands. Please see my Facebook Sue Jennings to see the continuing story of the transformations. They grow lovelier by the day!</span></div>
Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-86525869012708497702013-07-22T03:51:00.000-07:002013-07-22T03:51:24.912-07:00Time to play<br />
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Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-89715391181652443072013-07-07T15:06:00.000-07:002013-07-07T15:06:05.393-07:00Community Creativity<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">I am really inspired by the bursts of creativity I am encountering at the moment. From the Hip Hop class taking place at Gabriela's dance school in Karpenisi, Greece, to the wonderful murals at the Robert Cole Centre for children with special needs in Comanesti, Romania. The Hip Hop class integrates children of all ages and stages, some with developmental needs, and parents can join in too. I heard one boy say that he loved Hip Hop because it wasn't sissy like ballet!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">The Robert Cole Centre is truly inspirational and caters for children and teenagers with complex and multiple needs. They encourage all the arts in their educational and therapeutic programmes. And this recent mural is just one example of their dedicated work, (and play!).</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">I have just given a talk on Radio Karpenisi about the importance of creativity and the development of the brain, and it's significance even during pregnancy. If we had more creativity and the arts in schools and communities, there would be less need for Dramatherapists and Play Therapists. It gives examples of creative approaches to therapy with many different populations, and institutions. You can hear the hour long broadcast on your computer from Sue Jennings Facebook page.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Encourage your playful brain and do something creative today!</span>Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-62412472008037112282013-06-19T07:20:00.000-07:002013-06-19T07:20:10.826-07:00Healing Romania<br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: medium;">When a country calls to you you have to keep going back! I have been living and working in Romania for 12 years and I cannot stay away. Partly it is the people (why do they get such a bad press - I don't recognise the headlines in the tabloids), partly it is the amazing landscape.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: medium;">However I am always impressed how Romania is puling itself out of the morass of the communist times. The scandal of the orphanages has meant that a lot of repair work has to be done: social workers have more training in attachment work, large institutions have closed down and smaller group homes have been created; the wider world is much more aware and continues to send teams of professionals to do training, develop projects and generally raise awareness of rights and needs of children and adults with disabilities, people in long-stay psychiatric hospitals, and older people, especially those with dementia.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: medium;">There is still a lot more to be done, and Romanians are very willing to learn! You can always join me for a volunteers week (or more) together with training.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">They make a perfect circle on my knees and would just stay there, if I had the stamina, for hours on end. My daughter has four cats, all related, and they live next door. They are loved and cherished and cuddled and taken up to bed. So why do they choose to seek me out when I do not even welcome them?</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">The end of my one year Fellowship 'Arts and Older People' came to its close at the end of February 2013. However I allowed myself a personal followup in April to return to Malaysia. Fortunately I had been asked to present at a conference for psychiatrists in the Cameron Highlands which allowed me to re-visit one of the Temiar villages.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">My Fellowship in some ways was turbulent, especially at the beginning, when various countries gave me invitations which then could not be sustained: dates changed,hospitals were closed. Whereas I had planned to go to Czech Republic, Germany and Russia, I ended up going to Czech Republic, Romania and Malaysia!</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">Children and teenagers that had been in my previous study, were now parents and grandparents themselves. They take on the roles of responsibility for transmission of culture to the young. They made garlands and head-dresses woven from palm and decorated with hibiscus flowers. The older women showed the younger ones, and me, how the plait and weave in their traditional style.</span></div>
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Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-76704387739819051342013-05-08T00:13:00.002-07:002013-05-08T00:13:57.341-07:00Its never too young for Shakespeare...<br />
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">People's remains are a strange phenomenon! What to keep, what to throw and what to take down the charity shop, (more of that later as we discuss my 75% de-clutter project!).</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">My mother died many years ago and I suggested to my siblings that perhaps her ashes should be scattered in the same place as my father's. He died in Warwickshire and my mother in Devon. No-one seemed to think it was an issue, that it did not <i>matter. </i>So I took possession of them once the Funeral Directors were going to charge shelf-space for the container. Mother was lodged with me apart from a spell of wandering when they stayed in my brother's freezer room. Admittedly my sister-in-law almost mistook them for a new consignment of bird feed! Mother came back to me.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">I rang the crematorium about sprinkling the ashes in the same place as my father's, and they said it would be fine; they would need to be in a new container and there would be a fee. Then they made it very clear that I would have to stand and watch one of their staff do the sprinkling, I was not allowed! I closed the conversation and could not think of a plan. Mother's ashes have stayed with me for a subsequent 10 years!</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">Having just begun to come to terms with my husband's death over a year ago, I decided that I would send the ashes to the crematorium and they could sprinkle them. I could visit later. And then? The Post Office and the Delivery Services no longer will deliver ashes!</span></div>
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Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-34699879931330749682013-02-26T01:47:00.002-08:002013-02-26T01:47:40.845-08:00Masks of Stillness<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br style="font-family: Arial;" /><br style="font-family: Arial;" /><span style="font-family: Arial;">When I received my summons for speeding recently, it was a summons for a substantial speed over the limit: 81 mph in a 60 mph area! Did I have any options? I suppose I could try and do a Huhne, or grin and bear the fine and the points. I seem to be surrounded by friends and family who have all been speeding recently - what's going on? However all of them have opted to go on the safe driving course. And all of them have said it was worthwhile and they learned something important.</span><br style="font-family: Arial;" /><br style="font-family: Arial;" /><span style="font-family: Arial;">One friend summed it up by saying that he realised he did not need to speed in his car - also he could stop speeding and rushing around in life. He gave me a wry smile and said 'You know, WRS', 'What?, 'White Rabbit Syndrome - I'm late, I'm late...'</span><br style="font-family: Arial;" /><br style="font-family: Arial;" /><span style="font-family: Arial;">So if I am not rushing everywhere, what shall I be doing in this non-existent time? I decided not to create a new interest but revive an old one. It was time to start mask making again - sometimes I make them on my own face, but these masks I moulded on another mask. Each one represents another layer of myself as I went deeper into my stop speeding self!</span><br style="font-family: Arial;" /><br style="font-family: Arial;" /><span style="font-family: Arial;">I leave you to guess the order of the masks! And yes I am going on the course!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;"><br /></span>Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-79151691514535298442013-02-19T13:36:00.002-08:002013-02-19T13:36:30.687-08:00Masks of madness<br />
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">Teaching History of Madness, and contemporary practice in psychiatry, never ceases to amaze me about medical and public ignorance. Such unwillingness to go beneath the labels and try to understand what is really going on. Everyone ought to read Thomas Szasz 'The Myth of Mental Illness', and re-think their own bias and prejudice.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">But we live in a blame culture so it has to be someone's fault: almost always mothers are accused of causing autism or schizophrenia... Does any century go by without women being vilified for some major demeanor - Eve seems to have a long, long birthright!</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;">However schizophrenia is blame free: it still is not clear if it is a single 'disorder' or a cluster of different ones. Yet we still lock up people with the label, deprive them of their rights, deny them their freedom, enforce medication, and to all intents and purposes treat them like criminals. The very, very few who are potentially violent are seized upon by the media, and authorities are exhorted to lock them all up and throw away the key!</span></div>
Dr Sue Jenningshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10755241674448359325noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8776735416014919973.post-50718506691404626692013-01-30T08:35:00.000-08:002013-01-30T08:35:58.928-08:00It's so vast!<br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Where I live in Wells there are buildings on all sides but I enjoy writing at my desk and seeing people walking, scurrying, chatting... I am not someone who writes in an isolated attic, quite often I will write in cafe's or in parks.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">However when I am in a large open space or have views of mountains across meadows and farms, I can feel my writing expanding in a quite different way. This glorious sunset moved me beyond words and into wonder... The wonder is something physical and felt with my whole body.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Only later can it become words and phrases and then stories: stories that are journeys into landscapes and characters. The vast experienced becomes encapsulated and then manageable, and feeds into the process of creativity.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Sometimes it 'works' and at other times it has to be re-shaped, damped down like drying out clay, and shaped once again.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">The story is indeed never ending. </span></div>
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